Imagine the “perfect” person you would like to be with. Now imagine the perfect person that your dream guy/girl would want to be with… Are you that person?
Girls and women especially have this running list that they expect men to uphold or measure up to. What we need to remember is that they (men) have a list as well. I’m sure it’s shorter than ours, but the bottom line is that they have expectations as well.
We need to remember that when we are making our list it needs to be reasonable, humanly and that we are the person that our dream person would want to be with. That way we do not overlook ourselves when we are thinking about our perfect mate.
Do you measure up?
I know I don’t… that’s why I am constantly trying to improve myself because I know what I want, I know what I deserve, but do I measure up to his ideal? Maybe, maybe not. But I don’t want to ever stop improving myself just because there’s a chance that I do.
Strive to be that person… and never stop improving yourself.